Friday Night Dating
TGIF! Its Friday night and its time to get my date on. I make a quick call to Janelle to confirm our plans for dinner at 7 and I jump into the shower to wash away a weeks worth of stress and pain. I met Janelle on a site that offered free dating and we seemed to hit it off right from the start. I read her profile and she had many of the qualities I look for ina girl. Blonde hair and boobs. OF course I'm kidding, you can't forget the tush. She is such a great girl it's hard to believe that she is still single.
So Janelle and I had a great time and we've become quite serious. She wants me to meet her parents but I'm not sure if I'm ready in moving to the next step in our relationship. The way I see it, everything is going so well why complicate things by introducing problems. So this resulted in a big fight and we haven't spoken since.
Am I being ridiculous for wanting things to stay the same? Perhaps I have a fear of commitment, who knows.
I read this article about attraction and dating that talks about the type of people we like. The reason we are attracted to certain people is due to our gathered memories and experiences that shape our schemas. This results in a mental framework of what we find appealing.